Dear Shyboy,
I can help you and I have answer questions.
You looking at yourself others really better? No.
You have importance of making friends, because then You talking to your friend and asking him for help.
You will be stronger and funny, because you feel good.
If You go to the party then important good look and the fashionable clothes.
Learn to dance from the internet, and you learn example selection hiphop, couple dance or disco dance.
Learn the news today, thinking, watching the Tv and reading newspaper and books.
Take your other friend and you go to the party, because you are always at home.
But you decide.
If you will be questions then I will answer.
Good partying and luck.